When male musicians perform on stage, a lot of women will go mad and cry to see these musicians. You know what, lots of ladies try to go to male musicians hotel room to receive the seeds of the musicians. One of my friend is a guitarist from a local university band. Even for that level, several ladies approached him at the hotel where they stayed for a music festival performance. Those ladies want to receive the seeds.
Guys, juz learn a little bit about musical instrument. You play it in front of the lady you are after, that will help a lot.