Traditionally, when a man approaches a woman,
- He will sweet talk her
- Sacrifice anything for her
- The climax is the man confesses his feeling for her. How he loves her and adores her so much
With this traditional way, you guys could end up either accepted as a lover, or rejected and the only friend speech comes out from her (50:50).
By doing the traditional way, you let the woman decide whether to accept you or not and again this is not in accordance with nature wish. A choleric lady although she is a leader, she wants a dominant partner. A melancholy, sanguine or phlegmatic lady wants a leader. So never gives her a chance to decide for you.
Lots of time the lady will answer
WE CAN JUST BE FRIENDS RIGHT?
if she rejects you straight away.
GIVE ME SOMETIME TO THINK
if she does not reject you nor accept you straight away. Think means she will use her frontal area of her brain. The romantic and sexual feeling is inside her mid brain so if you let her think it is a risky decision. The more she uses her frontal area of her brain, the more she uses her logic, this could lead to rejection.
The higher class of seduction is you approach her with psychological strategies and let her confess her feeling for you and you are the one in control of the game. If you can trigger her romantic and sexual arousal, she will eventually ask you a question:
WHAT IS OUR STATUS ACTUALLY?
You must not answer this but you ask her WHY? and never answer the question this will drive her more crazy.
If she confesses her feeling, she will say:
I LOVE YOU
You must answer: I KNOW THAT
However, we must play the game so if she is persistence asking how you feel, answer with
I LOVE YOU TOO BUT.....
You leave a mystery at the end and never answer that mystery.